Drama is not a spice

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You come home one night and notice a group of girls huddled around your roommate.  She is proudly extending her left hand and you notice a diamond ring glimmering in the light, announcing her news.  

This is what many of you will be seeing this semester and this is what many of you will be experiencing yourself.  So what is your reaction?  Do you join in and congratulate your roommate? Do you brush past her and head straight to your room because inside you just can't believe she is engaged instead of you? Do you make rude comments about how "big" or how "small" her diamond is - because after all - that is what really matters isn't it?


Whether you think you fit this description or not, every girl has been guilty of reacting dramatically to someone else's accomplishment.  I'm not sure if girls are born with a drama gland: secreting gossip, jealousy and spite in the blood stream, or if they simply just find joy in creating havoc.  Drama is drama - and it has got to stop - immediately.


Imagine a world where sincere comments, kind smiles and encouragement were given in place of all the drama out there.  Do you like it when you see a girl sizing you up?  Looking you up and down? Whispering and pointing in your direction?  Ladies, these kinds of things are not spicing up your life. They are making you bitter.


My point:  Girls if you want a boyfriend, a best friend or any sort of lasting relationship, get rid of the drama.  A woman who glows with self esteem built by passion, hard work and happiness in herself radiates attractive.