Thousands of Miles

Dear Anabelle,

I've never had luck in relationships because the guys I always end up dating end up being jerks. I finally found a really good guy but he moved recently (right after we started talking and spending time together) and is now thousands of miles away from me on the other side of the country. He really likes me but knows he can't ask anything of me. We won't be living in the same place again for 8 more months. We talk everyday, and he is the sweetest guy I've ever met. What do I do?

Sincerely,

Thousands of miles apart

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Dear Miles Apart,

Whether it is a budding romance or strong and steady, every relationship at some point or another will be long distance. You are not alone in this venture. Many have made long distance work. This is a trial of true devotion.

These 8 months apart can be a time of learning about one another. Get to know each other’s goals, dreams, pet peeves, passions—everything that makes a person who they are. This is an opportunity to create a strong and lasting friendship with no strings attached. The pressure is gone with the chance to know each other deeply at your fingertips. Take advantage of the time apart. By the time you see each other again, you will have already created a bond that most relationships don’t have. Continue to show that you are there for him and that you care about him beyond the physical attraction and closeness.

Tried and truly yours,

Anabelle