An Educated Woman is a Desirable Woman

Dear Anabelle,

I am an educated woman, have lived abroad, love reading, and constantly strive to improve myself. Unfortunately, guys have described me as "intimidating," "scary," or just plain "too good for [them]." Am I doomed to a life alone, or should I start playing dumb just to get asked out?

Sincerely,

A Modern Woman Who Still Wants a Traditional Relationship

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Dear Modern Woman,

You very well may be “too good for them,” but don’t you want the right kind of man to work hard for what he gets? You are accomplished, cultured, and lovely, I’m sure. Playing dumb would attract the young men who aren’t willing to take risks or have a little courage. To match your sophistication, you need a man who would cherish your accomplishments.

Be patient. Heaven knows how hard that is, but it certainly is worth it. Continue to cultivate your talents, and be involved in groups, activities, and explore new hobbies. Who knows, you may find that special young man while taking an evening pottery class. You have much to offer. You are not doomed in any way, shape or form. If anything, you are becoming the woman every man dreams of.

Tried and truly yours,

Anabelle