I've been asked lately about how to know when a girl or guy is interested, or if they are just being nice. Where does the line come between being "busy" and "unavailable" to "I'm just not interested in you?"
Good question right? So what is the answer?
I hate to admit it, but females are the worst at this. Guys are pretty straight forward and their feelings are a little easier to decipher. (most of the time)
Girls love attention. I can't tell you how many times I have seen the scenario: a couple dates, texting everyday, invitations to hang out, lunch - all the while the girl is eagerly going along with it. Then when the guy feels like its time to move forward a bit, the girl runs the other way and suddenly becomes "busy."
Girls - what are you doing? Stop and think to yourself for a brief moment. Don't act surprised when a guy wants to move forward in what he thought was the beginning of a relationship. You were eating out of his hand. Texting everyday, going on dates and hanging out says, "I'm interested."
If you are not interested - say so! Who wants to be led along, waste their time, energy, emotions and small budget on a girl like you?
Guys - if a girl says she isn't interested, or isn't returning your phone calls, take a hint. Life is too short to be pining over one girl the rest of your life. Pick up the pieces of your heart and start giving them out to new options. You are still a great catch to another girl and she is waiting to be noticed.
Tried and Truly Yours,
Anabelle
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